Recalling a Life Devoted to the Underserved: Sister Sue Ann Shay, SNDdeN (1936–2009)

Sister Sue Ann Shay, SNDdeN devoted her life to social justice, tirelessly fighting for the underserved. Born in 1936 and raised in Greenwich, Connecticut, she later earned degrees from Trinity College (now Trinity Washington University) and Fordham University Law School, where she was one of only two women in her class. A dedicated lawyer and advocate, she became known for her work in antipoverty efforts, women’s causes and peace initiatives.

In the mid-’70s, Shay moved back to Connecticut, where she worked first for the New Haven Legal Assistance Program and later for the Hartford Neighborhood Legal Services Program. She also became more interested in consecrated religious life. After spending a year discerning her vocation and living with a few Sisters of Notre Dame de Namur,  she entered the order at 39 and made her first vows in 1975.

Aware of the growing crisis of women with infants and young children living dangerously on the streets of Hartford, she co-founded My Sisters’ Place women’s shelter with Sister Judy Beaumont, SNDdeN. A small blue Victorian house in the community was transformed into a place of safety and possibility for those with nowhere else to turn.

In the nearly 45 years since, My Sisters’ Place (MSP) has helped more than 26,000 people with shelter, food and services designed to support lasting independence. The Sue Ann Shay Place apartment building is part of the 34-unit supportive housing program operated by MSP and provides permanent, supportive housing for low-income individuals and families.

Sister Sue Ann Shay returned to God in 2009, leaving a legacy rooted in social justice for all.